For someone’s judgement to be valid, they need to be valued.
Without the relevance of respect, their judgement simply becomes another opinion.
It holds no weight.
I think a lot of us forget this when another stamps their feet and claims to judge us for our actions.
We hear the word judgement and instantly we feel belittled and less of worth, regardless of whether the viewpoint is correct or not.
But anything said with enough conviction becomes believable, even a misguided assumption.
All of us look up at the same stars and see such different things.
This is what makes us unique and what diversifies us and our life experiences.
By all means we are not all going to see eye to eye, but we also shouldn’t expect to point out other people’s sins and instantly be labelled a saint.
This doesn’t make you a decent person.
It doesn’t even make the other person’s actions a wrong thing.
It just points out what you disagree with.
I think if we spent more time communicating to understand instead of just listening to reply, things would be a lot different.
I believe we are accountable for ourselves.
This might not be everyone’s cup of tea but I feel we should be able to navigate our own compass without the need for finding validation and approval in others.
It’s not an easy feat and it can be very difficult to stand on your own, but it’s better to stand for something than fall for anything, especially another’s misconception of who you are.